Seth Adam Smith says "Real Love isn't just a euphoric, spontaneous feeling. It's a deliberate choice--- a plan to love each other for better and worse, for richer or poorer, in sickenss and in health."
We have to keep making the choice over and over again, right now, today and yesturday that we love our spouse through all circumstances. Love is a choice and then the action that you put into the choice.
So don't forget to CHOOSE to love your spouse today.